Building Leaders for your Singles Ministry

• Outflow by Steve Sjogren
  
• Troublesome Bible Passages by David Watson (leaders guide)
  
• Ten Stupid Things That Keep Churches from Growing by Geoff Surratt
  
• Reaching Single Adults by Dennis Franck
• Developing a Single Adult Ministry by Dennis Franck
• Growing Your Single Adult Ministry: 60 Leaders Tell You How, compiled by Jerry Jones, editor of Single Adult Ministries Journal
• The Idea Catalog for Single Adult Ministries, compiled by Jerry Jones, editor of Single Adult Ministries Journal
• Creative Weekends: 23 1/2 Ready-To-Use Events for Single Adult Ministry by Paul Petersen
• Giving the Ministry Away: Empowering Single Adults for Effective Leadership by Terry Hershey
• Building Your Leadership Team: 200 Practical Ideas for Single Adult Ministry by Ed Weising
  
• Serendipty House Publishers (entire section for single adult ministry
• Jesus on Leadership: Becoming a Servant Leader by C. Gene Wilkes
• Developing a Divorce Recovery Ministry by Bill Flanagan

• Single and Gifted by Brown

• Baker Handbook of Single Adult Ministry by Douglas L. Fagerstrom
• Spiritual Leadership by Henry and Richard Blackaby
• John C. Maxwell- Any book is great for leaders.
• Thirsty People: Developing a Stepfamily ministry in your church by Jeff and Judy Parziale
• Understanding and Ministering to Step-families (CD's) by Ron Deal
• Comforting the Bereaved: For Pastors and Others Who Minister by Warren W. Wiersbe, David W. Wiersbe
• Pastoral Care for Singles Parents by Harold Ivan Smith
• More than "I do", A Pastor's Resource book for Pre-Marital Counseling by Harold Ivan Smith
• Grief Care Kit for Pastors/Churches by Harold Ivan Smith
  

Bible Study/Sunday School Curriculum/Small Group

• Singles & Relationships by Kris Swiatocho, Dick Purnell (downloadable small group outline)
• Lies Women Believe by Nancy DeMoss
• Any study by Beth Moore
• Having a Mary Spirit by Joanna Weaver
  
• He Speaks to Me by Priscilla Shirer
  
• Crazy Love by Francis Chen (DVD's available)
  
• From the Manger to the Cross, The Single Women in Jesus's Life by Kris Swiatocho
• Anything by Cook Publishing
  
• One for the Lord by Earl Creps 
• Discovering Intimacy: Experiencing Great Commandment Love in Single Adult Relationships: Leader's Guide by David Ferguson (workbook, video, and CD)
• Anything by Tommy Nelson (specific Songs of Solomon)
  
• Christian Builders (ton of different Bible studies for singles)
• The Parable of Jesus Serendipity Bible Study
• Walk on Water by John Ortberg
  
• Several Studies by Andy Stanley
  
• His World for Life by Keith Pate
• Thirsty Thursday's by Marcus King
• Lessons in Christian Singleness by Ernest Jefferson
• Single Identity by Ernest Jefferson
• Being Single and the Spiritual Quest by Lifeway
• Leading from your Strengths by John Trent, Rodney Cox
• Lady In Waiting by Debbie Jones, Jackie Kendall (Journal/ Study Guide Available)
• Dating with Pure Passion by Rob Eagar (DVD/Study Kit available)
• Divorce Care Bible Study
• Divorce Care for Kids Bible Study
• Understanding and Ministering to Step-families (CD's) by Ron Deal
  

Bible Study/Personal Devotion

• Singles & Relationships by Kris Swiatocho, Dick Purnell (downloadable small group outline)
• When God doesn't Answer Your Prayer by Jerry Sittser
• How Jesus Became Christian by Barrie Wilson
  
• The Allure of Hope by Jan Meyers
  
• Crazy Love by Francis Chan (book/DVD)
• Women Home Alone by Patrician Houck Sprinkle
  
• Any Study by Dick Purnell
• Becoming a Disciple Series by Lifeway
  
• One Like Jesus by Debra Farrington
• Single to God: Personal Prayers by Single Adults Through Everyday Life by Douglas L. Fagerstrom
• Single Purpose: A Devotion for Singles by H. Norman Wright
• The Single Journey by Peter Nadeau
• Sacred Rhythms by Ruth Haley Barton
• 5 Languages of Apology by Gary Chapman
• Men Like Waffles..Women Like Spaghetti book and study guide by Bill & Pam Farell
• Latte for One and Loving It by Tosha Williams, Melanie Dobson
• Joyfully Single in a Couples World by Harold Sala
• A Singular Devotion: 366 Portraits of Singles Who Have Changed the World by Harold Ivan Smith
• The Imperfect Christian Family by Glenn T. Stanton
  
• Single to God: 100 Personal Prayers by Single Adults by Harold Ivan Smith
• They Were Single Too: 8 Biblical Role Models by David Hoffeditz
  
• Jesus Habits by Jay Dennis
  

Relationships (Family, Friends, Romantic)

• 5 Love Languages for Singles by Gary Chapmen
• 101 Questions to Ask before You Get Engaged by H. Norman Wright
  
• Undressed by Jason Illian
• Finding Your Compatible Companion by Nate Stevens
  
• Woman Don't Be Stupid by James Armato
  
• Safe People by Dr. Henry Club and Dr. John Townsend
  
• Love, Sex and Lasting Relationships by Chip Ingram
  
• 51 Good Things to Do until the Right one Comes Along by Harold Ivan Smith
• 10 Commandments of Dating by Ben Adams & Dr. Sam Young (outline)
• The Joy of Being  Saved and Single by Lawrence Moore and Shelley Jones
• Love and Respect by Emerson Eggerichs and Thomas Nelson
• Rating Your Dating While You are Waiting by Ed Young, Jr.
  
• Men Like Waffles..Women Like Spaghetti book and study guide by Bill & Pam Farell
• Before You Get Engaged - by David Gudgel and Brent Gudgel
• Finding A Lasting Love by Dick Purnell
• Relationship Regret by Dick Purnell
  
• How to get a date worth keeping by Henry Cloud
• What to Do Until Loves Finds You by Michelle McKinney Hammond
• The UnGuide to Dating by Camerin Courtney, Todd Hertz
• Dating with Pure Passion by Rob Eagar (DVD/Study Kit available)
• Should I Get Married by M. Blaine Smith
• Secrets of an Irresistible Woman by Michelle McKinney Hammond
• Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts by Dr. Les and Leslie Parrott
• Lady In Waiting by Debbie Jones, Jackie Kendall (Journal/ Study Guide Available)
• Knight in Shining Armor by PB Wilson
• A Good Man is Hard to Find by Jo Lynne Pool
• Finding the Love of Your Life by Neil Clark Warren
• Choosing God's Best by Dr. Don Raunikar
• Settling for Less Than God's Best by Elsa Kok
• Discovering Intimacy: Experiencing Great Commandment Love in Single Adult Relationships: Leader's Guide by David Ferguson (workbook, video, and CD)
• Before You Say "I Do": A Marriage Preparation Manual for Couples by Norman Wright, Wes Roberts
• Reconcilable Differences by Jim Talley, Leslie H. Stobbe
• Smart Love: A Field Guide for Single Adults by Nancy L. Van Pelt
• Are We Compatible? by C. E. Rollins
• Any book at Les an Leslie Parrott
  
• Getting Along with People You Love: Building and Maintaining Healthy Relationships by Marilyn Moravec
• What You Need to Know Before You Fall in Love by David Nicholson
• The Secret of Loving by Josh McDowell
• Boundaries in Dating by Henry Cloud, John Townsend
  
• Before You Say I Do by H. Norman Wright (workbook)
• Fit to Be Tied by Bill and Lynne Hybels
• Too Close Too Soon by Jim Talley, Bobbie Reed
• Finding Your Soulmate without Losing Your Head by Richard and Shirley Sexton
• You and Your Parents: Strategies to Building and Adult Relationship by Harold Ivan Smith
• I Kissed Dating Good-bye by Joshua Harris
• Boy Meets Girl: Say Hello to Courtship by Joshua Harris
• Who Should I Date by Jayne Clark, New Growth Press
  

  Divorce/Separation/Remarriage   

• When "I Do" Becomes "I Don't" by Laura Petherbridge
• Divorce Care: Hope, Help and Healing During and After Your Divorce by Kathy Leonard
  
• Before You Remarry by H. Norman Wright (workbook) 
• Growing in Remarriage: Seven Keys to a Successful Second Marriage by Jim Smoke
• New Start for Singles Mom's Starter Kit by Diane Strack
  
• Hope for the Separated: Wounded Marriages Can Be Healed by Gary D. Chapman
• When the Vow Breaks: A Survival and Recovery Guide for Christians Facing Divorce by Joseph Warren Kniskern (legal advice) 
• The Single Again Handbook: Finding Meaning and Fulfillment When You're Single Again by Thomas Jones
• Counseling and Divorce by Davd A. Thompson (resources for christian counseling)
• Counseling Families After Divorce by David R. Miller
• The Fresh Start Divorce Recovery Workbook: A Step-by-Step Program for Those Who Are Divorced Or Separated by Tom Whiteman, Bob Burns
  
• Beginning Again by Terry Hershey 
• Growing Through Divorce by Jim Smoke 
• Dare to Trust, Dare to Hope Again: Living With Losses of the Heart by Kari West
  
• Help for Parents of a Divorced Son or Daughter by Harold Ivan Smith
• Starting Over by Jayne Clark
  

Single Parenting

• Successful Single Parenting by Gary Richmond
• The Single Mom's Workplace Survival Guide: A Practical Guide by Brenda Armstrong
• Divorce Care for Kids by Church Initiative
  
• One-Parent Families: Healing That Hurts by Harold Ivan Smith
• Hidden Mission Field: Caring for Singles Parents by Teresa McKenna
• Single Parenting that Works by Dr. Kevin Leman
  

Blended Families

• The Smart Step Famly by Ron Deal
• Your Step-family Standing Strong (CD's) by Ron Deal and Dennis Rainey
  
• Life in a Blender: Booklet for Teens before and after thier parents remarry by Ron Deal
  
• My Mommies is Getting Married by Pam Chambers
• When Your Parent Remarries Late in Life: Making Peace with Your Adult Stepfamily by Terri P. Smith
  
• Resolving Conflict in the Blended Family by Tom Frydenger, Adrienne Frydenger
• The Smart Step-Mom by Laura Petherbridge

Grief and Loss

• Caring for Widows: You and Your Church Can Make a Difference by Wesley M. Teterud
• Comforting the Bereaved: For Pastors and Others Who Minister by Warren W. Wiersbe, David W. Wiersbe
• Griefshare: Bible study by Church Initiative
• Grieving the Death of a Mother by Harold Ivan Smith (Harold has a several books dealing with grief.)
  

Counseling

• Help for the Post-Abortion Woman by Teri K Reisser, Paul Reisser
• The Emotionally Destructive Relationship by Leslie Vernick
  
• Boundaries by Henry Cloud
• Counseling Single Adults: A Handbook of Principles and Advice by Douglas L. Fagerstrom, Jim Smoke
• Counseling Before Marriage by Everett L. Worthington, Gary R. Collins
• Counseling and Homosexuality by Earl B. Wilson
  
• The Bondage Breaker by Neil Anderson
• Approval Addiction by Joyce Meyer
• Weight of Grace by Paula Neall Coleman (prefer small group study)
  
• Bod 4 God by Pastor Steve Reynolds (individual or small group)
• New Growth Press (several books/studies on counseling)
  

Sexuality

• Sex and The Single Christian by Barry Colman
• Sex and The Single Purpose by Bob DeMoss
• Your Single Treasure by Rick Stedman
• The War Within by Robert Daniels
• Every Mans Battle Several Authors
• Every Woman's  Battle by Several Authors
• Sex is Not the Problem, Lust Is by Joshua Harris
• No More Sheets: The Truth About Sex by Juanita Bynum
• Sex Before Marriage by Jayne Clark
  

Single Life

• Being Single and Satisfied by Tony Evans
  Table for One by Camerin Courtney
  
• A Woman Who Hurts; A God Who Heals by Elsa Kok
• The Singles Christian Woman's Fight for Focus by Sherabim Allen
  
• Single Adults Want to Be the Church, Too by Britton Wood
  
• Common Mistakes Singles Make by Mary S. Whelchel
• For Single Men and Women by John Piper (online book)
• God's Call to the Single Adult by Michael Cavanaugh
• Sassy, Single & Satisfied by Michelle McKinney Hammond
  
• Single and Loving It by Kate McVeigh
  
• Heloise Household Hints for Singles by Heloise
  
• Holy Me? The Single Adult's Guide to the Spiritual Journey by Harold Ivan Smith
  
• 40 Something and Single by Harold Ivan Smith
• Reluctantly Single by Harold Ivan Smith
  
• Living Whole With a Better Half by Wendy Widder
  
• Single but Not Alone by Jane Graver
  
• Single and Content by Several Authors 
• Singled Out For Him by Nancy Leigh DeMoss
  
• Singles at the Crossroads by Albert Y. Hsu
  
• Being Single in the Church Today by Philip Wilson
• If You Want to Walk on Water You Have to Get Out of the Boat by John Ortberg
• Who Has Your Heart by Emily E. Ryan
• Live Like You Mean It by Kathy Troccoli